I run a messageboard; they advised me on how to handle a freak who started showing up at women's workplaces.
They suggested something that surprised me a lot, which was to ignore the asshole as much as possible, because creeps like this are usually seeking attention above all. So I very quietly banned him and said nothing except to the other board mods. He has disappeared, probably to harass other people.
So while letters are necessary if you plan to go to the cops and get a restraining order, it's also giving the jerk attention.
I recommend looking over their website for ideas. If you email them about it, be patient, because it may take a week for them to respond.
It may be worth notifying the guy you have contacted Cyber Angels about him.
Your campus security absolutely blows. I want to pound on them with the idiot stick.
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I run a messageboard; they advised me on how to handle a freak who started showing up at women's workplaces.
They suggested something that surprised me a lot, which was to ignore the asshole as much as possible, because creeps like this are usually seeking attention above all. So I very quietly banned him and said nothing except to the other board mods. He has disappeared, probably to harass other people.
So while letters are necessary if you plan to go to the cops and get a restraining order, it's also giving the jerk attention.
I recommend looking over their website for ideas. If you email them about it, be patient, because it may take a week for them to respond.
It may be worth notifying the guy you have contacted Cyber Angels about him.
Your campus security absolutely blows. I want to pound on them with the idiot stick.